Donna Morrissey and her four siblings gathered for a casual evening, sharing stories and drinks, which led to a significant realization for her. Raised in Newfoundland, Morrissey and her sisters predominantly spent time indoors with their mother, while their brothers engaged in outdoor activities with their father. This family dynamic persisted into adulthood, with Morrissey discovering unknown aspects of her father through her brothers’ narratives about him.
This revelation inspired Morrissey’s latest book, “Tell It to the Water: Five Siblings Tell of Their Father’s Grief and His Struggle Back to Hope.” While the focus is on their father’s grief following his wife’s death from cancer, the book also delves into other tragic events, such as the loss of Morrissey’s brother, Ford, in a workplace accident four decades ago.
Reflecting on the emotional process, Morrissey, who divides her time between Halifax and her native province, admitted that writing this memoir evoked deep emotions, unlike her fictional works. The chapters are narrated from the perspectives of Morrissey and her siblings, with each chapter clearly indicating the viewpoint.
The book’s creation involved numerous discussions and clarifications between Morrissey and her siblings, leading to brief tensions but ultimately strengthening their bond. Despite facing past tragedies, the book has brought Morrissey and her siblings even closer, fostering a deeper connection among them.
Dr. Simon Sherry, a psychologist at Crux Psychology in Halifax, emphasized the ongoing nature of grief and the evolving relationship people maintain with lost loved ones. Morrissey hopes that the book will encourage readers to reflect on their own family dynamics and provide guidance for those wanting to document their family history.
As time passes, Morrissey and her siblings have grown more appreciative of each other, recognizing the enduring impact of their shared experiences on their lives. The memoir serves as a testament to their continued growth and interconnectedness.